ENURESIS (My Over Twenty Years Bed-wetting Experience)

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On 7th of November, 2020, I released my first book which is titled ENURESIS: A Distressful Disorder. And on 10th February, 2021, I launched a foundation that will cater exclusively for the emotional needs of victims of enuresis. 

Why all this?

Bed-wetting is a disorder that has been left untouched and unaddressed for many years. And this awkward silence seems to be doing more harm than good, as victims are fearful and insecure, thinking they are the only ones going through this terrible disorder. Being miserable and helpless is the definition of how they feel. I know because I had been there.

After an over twenty years personal experience of enuresis, I could only conclude that victims really need a quick emotional rescue, as the psychological/emotional impacts of the disorder are deeper and severe than even the physical impacts.

The realization of this need, coupled with the passion to help victims overcome their miserable condition, made me write my first book, to serve as an avenue to share my horrible experience with victims, because I know that, when we know someone else or other people are going through what we are currently facing, it seems to calm our nerves and relieve us of our tension, that after all, we are not the only ones going through the challenge. And this often helps a great deal.

I am of the opinion that, when we begin to address and talk about ENURESIS openly, the fear and insecurity often experienced by the victims, will greatly reduce, and it will as well boost their confidence.

Also, there are many things the world seems not to know about enuresis. There have been many wrong beliefs and approaches in dealing with the disorder, many of which tend to complicate and worsen the situation. In light of this, the book unveils sound medical truths about ENURESIS.

The book also addresses the emotional damages that non-victims tend to perpetrate when they stigmatize and isolate victims. It advises the public on the right way to relate with them, support them and help them boost their confidence and sanity (mental health).

I speak up! Please speak up. The time is now to break the awkward silence and begin your journey to wholesome victory with confidence.

If you know any victim, kindly help me reach them! 

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