Peace Pavilion

(Kindly read the part one of this piece) . Dying in silence....... Begging to be loved..... Although, everything seemed to be perfect and smooth, in the sight of people around them, to the extent that some were even jealous of the love they both shared.  But every second spent in the relationship was like years of hardship, torment and agony in the pit of hell.  Already, she had pains sustained from her background/family challenges. But instead of finding consolation, healing, support, peace of mind, and restoration from whom she claimed to love, she got more wounds, bruises and scars in addition.  On a daily basis, though, having her own battles she was dealing with, she kept trying her best to forcefully ensure the relationship did not sink.  "If not him, nobody else" She would always say to herself. "I want to love him forever and sacrifice all that I am and have, for him. I want to be his support system. I see myself having the suitable strength required to suppo...

"She is so foolish and inconsiderate. How could she leave just like that! After many years of courtship. It was such a beautiful relationship and the guy really showered much love on her. I doubt she will ever see another guy as cool as him, again. Where does she want this innocent guy to start from! She is just so mean and wicked!"  These and many more are the comments most people make whenever a  lady announces break-up in a relationship. There are many reasons why relationships break, and the bitter truth is that, nobody, apart from the two people involved, can judge aright. This is because they are the ones in the relationship. They know well, the length and breadth of the things they've shared together and they know just where the shoe is paining them.  Courtship between two people is more of a personal affairs, than public. No matter how much you think you know two lovers, you cannot know the things they choose to hide from the public. In other words, they only let ...

On 7th of November, 2020, I released my first book which is titled ENURESIS: A Distressful Disorder. And on 10th February, 2021, I launched a foundation that will cater exclusively for the emotional needs of victims of enuresis.  Why all this? Bed-wetting is a disorder that has been left untouched and unaddressed for many years. And this awkward silence seems to be doing more harm than good, as victims are fearful and insecure, thinking they are the only ones going through this terrible disorder. Being miserable and helpless is the definition of how they feel. I know because I had been there. After an over twenty years personal experience of enuresis, I could only conclude that victims really need a quick emotional rescue, as the psychological/emotional impacts of the disorder are deeper and severe than even the physical impacts. The realization of this need, coupled with the passion to help victims overcome their miserable condition, made me write my first book, to serve as an...